Separation is never easy. Whether it has been a long time coming or a sudden change, the first few days and weeks can feel overwhelming. Emotions are high, practical matters pile up, and it can be difficult to know where to even begin.

At O’Hara Solicitors, we understand that this is one of the most stressful moments in your life. You may be worried about your children, your home, your finances, or simply how to cope with everything at once. That’s where we step in. Our role is to guide you through the process with calm, clear, and practical advice, helping you find a way forward.

Your Separation Checklist – The First Steps

When you first separate, it’s important to take a breath and focus on the essentials. Every situation is different, but these are the first steps most people need to think about:

1. Prioritise your wellbeing
   Taking care of yourself and your children (if you have them) should always come first. Surround yourself with supportive people and take time to breathe before making big decisions.

2. Understand your legal position
   Separation affects your rights and responsibilities, whether in terms of property, finances, or parenting. A brief conversation with a family solicitor can give you clarity and reassurance about what applies to your situation.

3. Think about children and parenting arrangements
   If you have children, their stability and routine are key. You don’t have to decide everything straight away, but start considering how care and communication will work.

4. Look at your immediate financial needs
   Day-to-day living expenses, bills, and access to joint accounts can all be affected. Knowing your options early helps prevent unnecessary stress later.

5. Get professional advice before making big moves
   It can be tempting to make quick decisions, but getting the right legal advice first ensures you protect your future.

Why Speak to O’Hara Solicitors Early?

Many people wait too long before speaking to a solicitor because they’re worried it will make things more complicated. In reality, early legal advice often makes the process smoother and less stressful. We’ll give you practical guidance tailored to your circumstances, helping you make informed decisions without unnecessary conflict.

Ready to Talk?

Separation is difficult, but you don’t have to go through it alone. At O’Hara Solicitors, our family law team provides straightforward, compassionate advice designed to protect what matters most to you.

Contact us today for an initial conversation and take the first step towards a clearer future.