As a parent, one of the hardest parts of separation or divorce can be feeling like you’re not spending enough time with your children. Whether you want more weekends, longer holidays, or simply a greater role in day-to-day care, it can be difficult to know how to approach the situation legally.

At O’Hara Solicitors, we understand how emotional this can feel. Our role is to guide you through the legal process calmly, ensuring your request is handled in a way that focuses on your children’s best interests while protecting your rights.

Start with Open Communication

Before taking any legal steps, it’s often helpful to try and reach an agreement with the other parent. Clear, respectful communication can resolve many issues without involving the courts. Keeping a record of requests and responses also helps if legal intervention becomes necessary.

Consider Mediation

If discussions don’t lead to a solution, mediation can provide a structured way to negotiate parenting arrangements. A trained mediator helps both parents focus on the children’s needs, explore options, and reach a mutually acceptable agreement.

Making a Legal Application

If agreement through communication or mediation isn’t possible, you may need to make an application to the family court. The court’s primary concern is the welfare of the child, and your application will need to demonstrate why additional time is in their best interests.

Be Clear About Your Request

When asking for more time, clarity is key. Be specific about:

• Which days or times you want

• How long the arrangement would last

• How the change benefits your children

Your solicitor can help you frame your request in a way that meets legal requirements while presenting your case clearly and calmly.

How O’Hara Solicitors Can Help

Navigating parenting arrangements can be stressful, especially when emotions are involved. Our family law team provides practical advice and support, helping you understand your rights, explore your options, and, if necessary, make an application to court that is focused on the best interests of your children.

If you want more time with your children, contact O’Hara Solicitors today for compassionate, clear, and practical legal guidance.