Becoming a father changes everything. Your role in your child’s life is irreplaceable, and when relationships break down, it can feel like that bond is under threat. Many dads worry about whether they’ll still get to see their children, how decisions will be made about their future, and what rights they actually have in family law.

At O’Hara Solicitors, we understand the fear and uncertainty dads often face in these situations. You may feel like the system is against you, but the truth is, the law recognises the importance of both parents in a child’s life. With the right advice and support, you can protect your role as a father and secure the time and involvement you deserve.

Do Fathers Have the Same Rights as Mothers?

In many cases, yes. Fathers who have parental responsibility have the legal right to be involved in important decisions about their child’s upbringing, including:

• Education and schooling

• Medical treatment

• Religious upbringing

• Day-to-day welfare

If you were married to your child’s mother at the time of birth, or if you are named on the birth certificate (after 1 December 2003 in England and Wales), you will usually have automatic parental responsibility. If not, you can apply to gain it.

What About Living Arrangements and Contact?

When parents separate, the law recognises the importance of both parents in a child’s life, therefore the child’s welfare and best interests are the forefront of all decisions.

This means that, as a dad, you have the right to apply for arrangements that reflect your child’s needs and maintain your relationship with them. Courts and mediators recognise that children benefit from having both parents actively involved in their lives.

When Should a Dad Speak to a Solicitor?

It’s important to seek advice early if you:

• Are being denied contact with your child

• Want to secure or formalise parenting arrangements

• Need clarity on your parental rights and responsibilities

Speaking to a solicitor doesn’t mean you’re starting a fight. It means you’re taking steps to protect your relationship with your child in a way that is fair, balanced, and focused on their wellbeing.

How O’Hara Solicitors Can Help

We know how daunting family disputes can feel, especially for fathers. Our family law team provides straightforward, compassionate advice—helping you understand your rights and explore your options. We’ll work with you to find practical solutions that keep your child’s best interests at the heart of every decision.

If you’re asking, “What are my rights as a dad?”—the best step you can take is to talk to us. Contact O’Hara Solicitors today for clear, supportive guidance.